Friday, April 30, 2010

LOVE.

our actions come full circle
I consider myself a loving person.  I love to make people happy; to help, to listen, to get a job done.  I'll go out of my way to do it.  I work extra hard and sometimes wonder if people notice.  I shouldn't expect a fanfare, but I do find myself hoping for recognition.  Then someone acknowledges me, compliments me, rewards me...and it makes me feel good.  That's my full circle.

I hope I give others their full circle.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

inhale * exhale * relax. repeat.

i am calm. relaxed.  ::breathe::

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Calm, Cool, & Cooking

do more of what you love
I love surprising people.  So that's what I did today  :) 
First up, Kaylee...I took her to pick out a movie tonight, and she was sooo ecstatic!  She chose the Princess and the Pauper.  Then I had an opportunity to spoil my sister with some discounted dining and drinking at Hula Bay, so I did it.  I love getting chances to give back to people I love!

Also, I got to check out my new pots and pan set from Ikea.  Didn't use any of them tonight BUT I'm looking forward to using them tomorrow  =)

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

A Baseball. It can cure an angry child.

To the man who gave me a baseball, Thank You. 
You see, I was patiently sitting as I was being screamed at and nearly beaten to death by a 2 year old child...when literally, I believe this man saved my life. 

Let me back up and explain more. 

I took Kaylee to a baseball game tonight.  My friend has three boys around Kay's age, so I invited them to join us.  They accepted.  At the ballgame my friend's middle child needed a bathroom break. 
"Can you watch them while I take him to the bathroom?" 
...was pretty much the last thing I recall before blacking out. 
Kidding, kidding.  I didn't black out. 

So let me share what happened next.  The scathing fury of a toddler who has separation anxiety and has been left with someone they aren't terribly familiar with (a.k.a. "me") was officially unleashed.  I prayed.  I held on to him out of fear as I was screamed at and beaten for what seemed like an eternity.  Occassionally Kaylee and Jack (the older child) would come chat with me, which helped to distract me from the beating I was enduring. 

....Suddenly, a man appeared before me.  I don't even think words were exchanged.  I think the pity in his eyes and the wounds on my body spoke it all. He handed me a baseball.  I handed the baseball to the child. The child stopped screaming.  A few minutes later he also stopped beating me up.  I lived.

Monday, April 26, 2010

Whoaaaaaaa, I got Catching Up to do

Hi. I'm Mel, of LWYA. 
I have been overwhelmed.
I have not been updating this blog.
Can you find it in your heart to forgive me? 

Here's my story.


Between classes wrapping up meaning tons of assignments, exams, papers and presentations due *finals week is here!!*, huge projects at work, nursing a sick child, keeping said child entertained, renovating kitchen, making new friends, and fighting this awful awful cold I now have............I have not had the energy to update this blog   :(
 
BUT things are starting to ease up and I look forward to jumping back onto LWYA posts. It's my therapy and I probably need some about now, haha.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Pick-me-up Kindness

I hope I made your day.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Notice the details in nature

delight in the miracles that quietly surround you every day.
Although I endured horrendous body aches today, I managed to water my blooming garden.  I then laid down on my lounger while Kaylee played in the back yard.  It really was a beautiful day.  Except for the pollen.  ...which I guess is a necessary irritant if I want to keep enjoying the beauty of nature.  ::grins::

Here are some all natural details I spotted  :)

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Plan a KINDNESS egg hunt

See if the kids can help each other find all the eggs.
Didn't work.  Dude, they're kids and the eggs are brightly colored and filled with goodies.  I can't pull off miracles, ya know!  They did all find the eggs though, but seriously it was every kid for themself.

Decorate the eggs with loving, joyful words.
Ahhh, now this I can do.

Friday, April 2, 2010

Donating red fuel

If you are comfortable donating blood, make an appointment.
I'm not.  Sorry.  I don't weigh enough to donate blood anyways, Okay??  BUT, I'll tell you what.  I'll find someone to donate on my behalf.

==April 5, 2010==
In steps Jeff, who weighs enough and is happy to donate blood.  He's like a red lifesaver.  ew, why'd I type that?  Anyways, he did it.  He donated blood during his lunch break!  What a great guy!!!!!  He even sent proof, LOL.

April Fools

release your inner-comedian!
My sister and I giggled ferociously as we came up with this silly e-mail!  Click on it to see it larger  :)